When the boy and I got married (almost 9 years ago!), we didn’t talk a bunch about our wedding song. He took the very hands-off approach with most of the wedding plans, which was probably for the best. If he had a strong opinion about something, he would share it. But, most of the decisions were just made.
I thought a lot about our wedding song, though. Music is kind of our thing, and I wanted something that really spoke to both of us. We ended up dancing to “Feels Like Home” by Bonnie Raitt, which worked. It is a great song, and I thought that it worked well because it was a little bit country and a little bit not, just like us. And, I love the lyrics of that song.
However, what I really wanted was a Dave Matthews song. The boy and I are big fans (although, I know that he isn’t for everyone, so if you don’t like him, then you don’t need to tell me), and we have seen him a ton in concert throughout our relationship, before wedding and after. And, I was pretty bummed that in 2000 I couldn’t really find a song that worked for the first dance. We listened to everything we owned, which was everything that they had out. And, we didn’t really find something that fit all the way.
Since then, we have had quite a few dave songs that have echoed what was going on in our lives. “Stay or Leave” was our song when the boy was supposed to be sent to Korea. It fit perfectly. And, “Steady As We Go” was our Iraq deployment song.
But, the band’s new album just came out. And, it has some amazing songs on it! Including this one, “You and Me.” And, this would have been our wedding song. It is just cheesy enough to be awesome!

YOU & ME by Dave Matthews
Wanna pack your bags, Something small
Take what you need and we disappear
Without a trace we’ll be gone, gone
The moon and the stars can follow the car
and then when we get to the ocean
We gonna take a boat to the end of the world
All the way to the end of the world
Oh, and when the kids are old enough
We gonna teach them to fly
You and me together, we could do anything, Baby
You and me together yes, yes
You and I, we’re not tied to the ground
Not falling but rising like rolling around
Eyes closed above the rooftops
Eyes closed, we’re gonna spin through the stars
Our arms wide as the sky
We gonna ride the blue all the way to the end of the world
To the end of the world
Oh, and when the kids are old enough
We gonna teach them to fly
You and me together, we could do anything, Baby
You and me together yes, yes
We can always look back at what we did
All these memories of you and me baby
But right now it’s you and me forever girl
And you know we could do better than anything that we did
You know that you and me, we could do anything
You and me together, we could do anything, Baby
You and me together yeah, yeah
Two of us together, we could do anything, baby
You and me together yeah, yeah
The two of us together yeah, yeah
Two of us together, we could do anything, baby